This weekend was a rainy one, I'm not going to hide it to you, and I suppose it was a bit the same in Europe. We decided to go in Paris on Saturday, and stay home on Sunday, which was totally perfect.
As the title says perfectly, I'm getting very sentimental. I've always been. It has always been tough for me saying goodbye to people & places. But as we never met real friends along our different moves, saying goodbye to people wasn't very hard, because there weren't lots of people to say goodbye to. But it's harder for me to leave places forever. Home or places we used to go to. Being a SAHM, it feels weird leaving the place I spend my whole days & nights. Do you see what I mean ? Schools where the boys go, stores where I shop for food every other day, and places we visited these last two years. Let me tell you that you get habits very easily & very quickly. You get used very quickly to the fact you live very close to the biggest city of your country. But it's only before you move that you realize you could have done even more than you already did, you could have visited more places than you did visit. And then it's the time to say goodbye to your favorite places, before you go. Of course you don't go forever, you'll come back there, once a year maybe, hopefully twice a year. My heart is a little heavy because of that, but I know that soon I won't even have the time to get a heavy heart because I'm leaving places. I'll be leaving places, and everything will be alright. There will be new places, new favorite places, new friends hopefully, after a long time. New habits, new shops to shop from, every other day.
We'll miss you, Palais de la Découverte. (science museum in Paris) We loved you so much. You introduced us four to the thrilling world of science. We said goodbye on Saturday after 6 hours spent with you.








And ... we'll miss you, Exki. You provided us many happy moments, healthy & yummy meals. Too bad you don't exist yet in Montpellier. :(

I'll miss you, Le Bon Marché. My boys will miss your toys/games area, they drool so many times there. I'll miss your sewing & embroidery supplies area, so much. But I know I'll be back. Once a year. At least.
It was the last time we were going to these places. We'll make one very last trip to Paris, probably next weekend. Then, no more. :(
I know this must seem way too sentimental for some (or most) of you. But if you're not going to move yourself soon, try to picture yourself leaving your own favorite places, and your own beloved people. Wouldn't you feel a little bit heavy hearted, at least for a little while ?
Oh well.
Saturday also marked Chris' 34th birthday. Quite a weird birthday week he had, poor man, right ? On Sunday we stayed home. It was Mother's Day in France, and my two little ones were the first to greet me as I woke up. :) Their good health, their infinite & everlasting love are the only things that matters to me. U had made a cute flower pot with a paper flower which petals spelled my name, and which heart (of the flower) was a photo of himself. Adorable. And P had done a lovely drawing at school for me too. Sweet ! It rained most of the day, which was perfect for staying home. Looots of Playmobils, Kapla & other games were played. A bit of housework done too (laundry mainly), but no box at all.


Chris feels a bit better, and he has two appointments today. This morning with his regular doctor, and in the afternoon with a pneumologist. We'll see how it'll go. He's supposed to go back to work tomorrow.
I hope you all had a filled weekend. I apologize sincerely if I (still) owe you a visit. My mind is in a million places at the same time. Or maybe I already packed it in a box & can't remember. LOL
xoxoxo
As the title says perfectly, I'm getting very sentimental. I've always been. It has always been tough for me saying goodbye to people & places. But as we never met real friends along our different moves, saying goodbye to people wasn't very hard, because there weren't lots of people to say goodbye to. But it's harder for me to leave places forever. Home or places we used to go to. Being a SAHM, it feels weird leaving the place I spend my whole days & nights. Do you see what I mean ? Schools where the boys go, stores where I shop for food every other day, and places we visited these last two years. Let me tell you that you get habits very easily & very quickly. You get used very quickly to the fact you live very close to the biggest city of your country. But it's only before you move that you realize you could have done even more than you already did, you could have visited more places than you did visit. And then it's the time to say goodbye to your favorite places, before you go. Of course you don't go forever, you'll come back there, once a year maybe, hopefully twice a year. My heart is a little heavy because of that, but I know that soon I won't even have the time to get a heavy heart because I'm leaving places. I'll be leaving places, and everything will be alright. There will be new places, new favorite places, new friends hopefully, after a long time. New habits, new shops to shop from, every other day.
We'll miss you, Palais de la Découverte. (science museum in Paris) We loved you so much. You introduced us four to the thrilling world of science. We said goodbye on Saturday after 6 hours spent with you.














I know this must seem way too sentimental for some (or most) of you. But if you're not going to move yourself soon, try to picture yourself leaving your own favorite places, and your own beloved people. Wouldn't you feel a little bit heavy hearted, at least for a little while ?
Oh well.
Saturday also marked Chris' 34th birthday. Quite a weird birthday week he had, poor man, right ? On Sunday we stayed home. It was Mother's Day in France, and my two little ones were the first to greet me as I woke up. :) Their good health, their infinite & everlasting love are the only things that matters to me. U had made a cute flower pot with a paper flower which petals spelled my name, and which heart (of the flower) was a photo of himself. Adorable. And P had done a lovely drawing at school for me too. Sweet ! It rained most of the day, which was perfect for staying home. Looots of Playmobils, Kapla & other games were played. A bit of housework done too (laundry mainly), but no box at all.




I hope you all had a filled weekend. I apologize sincerely if I (still) owe you a visit. My mind is in a million places at the same time. Or maybe I already packed it in a box & can't remember. LOL
xoxoxo
I know that feeling so well Sonia, I'm with you. Missing places and your routines can be just as emotional as leaving friends. In many ways these places become our friends because they are familiar and comforting.
ReplyDeleteIn the craziness of trying to pack my little boy for a week in Normandy yesterday i forgot to wish you a very happy Mother's Day! I'm glad it was restful, that's how they should be, the boxes will wait.
Have a lovely week and I'm hoping for good news from the doctors for Chris :)
Happy Monday, Sonia! Oh, I know that feeling very well! Saying goodbye is always tough.
ReplyDeleteGlad you had a very happy weekend, happy birthday to your hubby! Hope he will 100% well ASAP. Hugs!
Happy late Mother's Day Sonia :-) What a lovely post on saying Goodbye to your favourite places, I can understand how hard it must be for you to leave all those behind! I feel for you Friend, saying Goodbye is never easy! And it's OK to feel that way, my Friend, you should not feel bad in any way for allowing yourself to be sad about leaving - it is all a part of closure, and you are doing a good job too! A proper end to your Paris life opens the door to the new beginnings in Montpellier, right? :-) Ok, I am rambling I know... just want you to know that you have my full support, sweet Sonia, and with all of my heart I wish and hope that everything will work out for you :-)
ReplyDeleteLove and care,
Susanne xxxx
you explain your feelings very well Sonia, and I understand absolutely what you mean. Being a stay at home mum is the best job in the world, but can be the loneliest too. And having your own routine, how you do things, where you shop, places you visit are all the more important. I feel for you for moving again when you are so attached to where you live now. I wouldn't want to do it. when I first lived with Bill it was about 40 minutes away from the town I call home and I longed to move back. We did so, and while I was ecstatic, I had the same feelings as you, of feeling sad to say goodbye to the place I had called home for so long.
ReplyDeleteI hope Chris is much better, and had a good birthday.
Happy packing (!) I hope the week goes well, your move must be so close now.
xxxxx
Belated happy mom's day sonia! remember to wear the world like a loose garment. :)
ReplyDeleteHappy belated birthday to your husband, and of course Happy Mum's Day... (also belated).
ReplyDeleteYour post made me well up. So much emotion, and I could so relate to it. I have left so many places and friends behind too. And it never gets easier. I am always finding myself "home sick" for quite a few different places in the world. Not a good thing, I think. That is probably why I never really feel at "home" anywhere. Thinking that it might not last.
I have been online very little, too. To say I am "behind" is an understatement. But life and my shop is gobbling me up from early morning to late at night (another thing that is not good I suppose)
I just so wanted to pop around and let you know I am thinking of you and your family, and wishing you a good move. At least your family will be much nearer to you and the boys.
Much strength to you, in this difficult and exciting time.
Love, annaxx and family xx
The end of a perfect day with a rainbow. Paris loves you Sonia and will miss you dearly.
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday Chris!!
I totally understand- I feel like I should go and visit the places I like one last time and I get sad.I am moving very far from 'home' so I don't know when or if I'll ever be back.I don't like to think about that too much-
ReplyDeletetake care:)
andrea
Hi Sonia, it is always sad & difficult to see the end of a part of your life, thankfully you'll be able to go back to Paris & visit your favorite places from time to time. I know it will be different but I'm sure you're going to love your new life "back home" in such a great city as Montpellier. You're in my thoughts *Sis, you're in my thoughts. Big hugs
ReplyDeleteack...crying baby but i'll leave a quick pawprint. hope chris is soon feeling 100 % again! lots of love! xo
ReplyDeletec'est le moment qui précède qui est finalement le plus dur à porter... comme quand on va faire un grand voyage on ne se sent plus léger que quand l'avion a décollé mais la nuit qui précède on dort rarement du sommeil du juste... je ressens tout à fait les mots que tu as utilisé... même en d'autres occasions qu'un déménagement.
ReplyDeletelaisse-toi aller dans ce que tu sens, sans aucune culpabilité mais comme une phase tout à fait normal du processus...
je regrette seulement que ton mari ait célébré son anniversaire avec une petite santé... je sais que tu lui as sans doute fait de bons petits plats et que votre amour à tous les trois est bien plus que tout le reste. je lui souhaite un bon rétablissement en espérant que l'air plus sec du sud mette un terme définitif à ses ennuis
je t'embrasse